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How do you have so much energy???

How do you have so much energy???

The last time I was in Miami I was talking to my friend Kelly, she mentioned not wanting to go do something because she was tired and I jokingly replied “if I didn’t do things because I was tired, I’d never leave the house.” I kinda saw a “lightbulb moment” in her, and she replied, “you know what, you’re right.”

From the outside looking in I can easily see how people seem to think I have this endless supply of energy and enthusiasm that keeps me bouncing from one activity to another, sometimes scrolling through my Instagram feed leaves me wondering how I do it all too, but honestly, life’s to short to be boring, at least for me.

I’m a planner by nature. Parties, nights out, lunches, trips, I love creating fun for everyone. Spending time with my friends invigorates me, even if I have to drag my ass out of bed to get there, I’ve never come back from a night out wishing I’d stayed at home instead.

Vacations (or trips I should say, since we always take the kids,) can take weeks of planning, go dreadfully wrong, and yet, I’ll still come home thinking “when’s the next one!”

Anyone that knows me knows I’m easily excitable and always up for fun (just say YES!) If Jazz hands were a person, they’d be me, but I’ve also learned over the years, that the best way to keep your energy up, is to take the time to recharge when you need it.

Time alone, my door closed, no kids and a movie in bed can bring me back when my reserves are low, when I “hit a wall” I let my family know and hide out for awhile.

Finding that perfect balance took me years, maybe even decades, but I did, and I couldn’t be happier at how it’s all worked out.


2018-10-28T15:43:18+00:00 October 28th, 2018|Family, Pregnancy, Travel|


  1. Ms. Tracey October 28, 2018 at 7:50 pm - Reply

    I like that point of view. I’m a pre-school teacher at Koa’s school and I love my job more than anything. I get to be creative and watch them discover all kinds of things and be surrounded by children and their wonderful energy. But, by Friday at 5, I feel like I have nothing left to give them and I’m running on empty. I make a point to put a few hours of the weekend aside to just be alone and quiet. It might be reading on my deck or watching a favorite film or taking a rare afternoon nap. But, I turn the phone off, lock the door and give myself self the gift of being alone. By Monday, I’m raring to go be a teacher again. P.S. Koa made French onion soup in my cooking class. The other kids weren’t sure about it but she had 3 cups!!

  2. ModestiaTyman November 7, 2018 at 6:48 am - Reply

    You do have to start somewhere, and I have been blessed I know that, but I am doing what I can in order to live the life that I want, and deserve. How does this have to do with energy? Well I’m not sure, but the drive, the burning fire within, just pulls out energy from thin air when you know

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